Research confirms that no matter how pretty, smart, succesful and caring you are as a woman, you can never bring a man to your level. Instead, if his chronically underperforming self made his life a mess, he will pull you down with him, backed by evidence. Therefore, you should be at least be at the same level of physical and intellectual competence because you evidently can’t save a man unwilling to help himself, and he’ll struggle to see you doing better than him. So, please be with a man who can pull you up because he otherwise will pull you down with him.
I was a damn fool, won’t happen again.
ingénue 